Some of our Growth Groups are known as Large Groups (aka Extra-Large Groups or Super Groups). These groups have the same purpose as our regular groups and are led by trusted leaders, but they are made up of around 20-25 people rather than the usual 8-12.

The benefits of being part of a large group are being able to get to know more people and having the chance to learn in different ways. For example, groups can study the Bible as a large group, sub-groups or triplets. A large group is worth trying out if you can.

It can be tough to manage both people getting to a group in this situation. If you're keen to be in a group together getting a regular babysitter is a good investment if you can afford it. Sometimes family members are happy to help out (if they're around). If possible you might be able to arrange work commitments so that the mum in the family can get to Women's Growth Group. Alternating weeks is convenient but has the drawback of effectively halving your group time (or more with sickness/travel etc). That's a lot of learning and relationship building to miss out on over the year.

Another idea is going out on different nights (a Monday and a Tuesday). This has worked well for some couples. See the testimonial below:

“Being in a separate growth group to my spouse hasn't really been an issue for either of us. I've been fortunate to be in a series of men's groups with godly guys dedicated to encouraging one another. It's allowed me to talk about and wrestle with some very specific issues that men struggle with in living a life of faith. This has allowed for conversations about helpful topics that would be more difficult to talk about in a mixed group. In terms of the practicalities, we just make sure kids have had dinner, baths, finished homework and tidied up before 7:30 while both of us are still on deck (works pretty well most nights). It's become part of our routine for other weeknights as well and the kids don't know any different. The spouse that stays home usually appreciates time to do something that they would like to do while the other is at Growth Group eg read, complete a work task, watch a program the other isn't into etc. One particular advantage of being in separate Growth Groups is that as a couple, we connect with more families and individuals than we would if we were in the same group together.” — Dave, Newy am

“Going to two evening groups is the only way that we could both do growth groups. Non-work days didn't coincide with Tues or Thurs women's groups. One year, Thursday was the only home day I had with my daughter so I wanted to be able to take it slow and hang out with her. We don't host or lead, and don't want to pay for a babysitter so we go to separate evening groups. When Ben's out I put the girls to bed, sometimes that takes all night! Will cook the following nights dinner, do some ironing whilst watching a TV show that Ben doesn't like.” — Mel, Newy am

In the long term, some couples enjoy taking on the challenge of leading and hosting together. If that interests you for future years then please come and speak with one of your pastors.

If your preferences change while the form is still open, you can just submit another form. Otherwise email maturity@hunterbiblechurch.org

We'd love to have loads of people in groups but we're also keen for people to join well. At HBC we think the best way into any of our groups is through doing the Connect Series with us. Come and speak with the team at the Connect Point or head to the Connect Series page to find out more.

Yes. It's fine to change your mind or leave a group if that's the best thing.

Both options are good. Continuing with the same leaders/group allows you to build on the relationships you've made in the previous year. Choosing a new group allows you to meet new people and encourage them. You can chat to your leaders or pastors if you're not sure.